As we drove into two this evening to take Dee to Girl Guides, Rob and I chatted about this and that as we often do. I mentioned that I googled … cyber stalked a wee bit … a woman I’d met by chance during a Facebook discussion on pap tests.
Yes, cervical cancer screenings. What else I would I be discussing in a Facebook thread.
I noted that most of the women I met virtually seemed to blog and they all appeared to arrive at blogging via upsetting and/or traumatic life events.
“I feel I might not to widen my circle of acquaintance,” I said.
As I recounted the various facts I’d gleaned about this blogger, Dee piped up from the back seat.
“She’s married to a woman?”
“Yes,” I said. “We’ve talked about this. Women sometimes fall in love with and marry other women.”
“No, I don’t think so,” she countered.
At ten she’s become quite contrary. She disagrees or takes the opposite stance simply because it is me, her mother, that she is talking to.
“It’s only a preview,” Rob has remarked more than once. He counts himself an expert because he witnessed two other daughters become quite militant opposing with another wife in the past.
“Yes,” I said, “we did. Remember my friend Mike on Facebook. The one with the two little girls?”
“He is married to a man.”
“Of course,” she agreed as though man on man marriage and parenthood was as normal as drawing a breath and why were we going back over this ordinary, normal ground.
“Well,” I continued, “sometimes women also fall in love, marry and have children. Just like them and just like Dad and I.”
“Except Dad isn’t a woman.”
“Dad is certainly not a woman,” I agreed.
“So does one of them wear a tuxedo and the other a white dress,” she asked.
“Sometimes. And sometimes they both were gowns or they both wear tuxedos.”
“I think girls would look cute in tuxedos,” she declared.
“If Edie and Silver ever get married, you can tell them you are going to wear a tuxedo like Dad’s then,” I said.
“But what if I want to wear a dress?”
“Then you will,” I told her, “but it’s nice to have options.”