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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 18:13:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stumbled across a book on &#8220;closure&#8221; not long ago, written by Nancy Berns, a professor at Drake University in my old home of Des Moines, Iowa. She&#8217;s a sociologist, attracted to the cherry &#8220;death and dying&#8221; course work. I have perused her blog but only read the first chapter of her book because it&#8217;s essentially [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=anniegirl1138.com&amp;blog=2609877&amp;post=9519&amp;subd=anniegirl1138&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jan 2007 23:30:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I couldn&#8217;t give my life away. It has slid once again into a pattern so utterly predictable that I can tell what time it is simply by what I happen to be doing at even given moment. Even the few glimmers that might have been bright spots early on are fading for me. Just more [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=anniegirl1138.com&amp;blog=2609877&amp;post=227&amp;subd=anniegirl1138&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 2007 23:19:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have never had much use for New Year&#8217;s resolutions. They are usually lightweight and things that a person should be doing anyway or too big to just impose on a whim dictated by the calendar. But, this is an important year. For me anyway. I am not going to call them resolutions but goals [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=anniegirl1138.com&amp;blog=2609877&amp;post=219&amp;subd=anniegirl1138&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Dec 2006 23:18:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Dec 2006 23:16:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today is the anniversary of Will&#8217;s death 11 months ago. The first year is almost over. In most ways I am ready for it to be over too. I am tired of the restrictions that being less than a year out from his death have placed on me because in some ways I was farther [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=anniegirl1138.com&amp;blog=2609877&amp;post=217&amp;subd=anniegirl1138&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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